Tuesday 11 June 2013

Childhood Grooming....


Few days back i went to a function. As we all know when "Function" word is being raised,
there comes the word "Delicious food".So respecting this thought,I entered into the dinning for food .But when i entered into the dinning hall what  i saw was really unbelievable specially in Odisha.Without eating any food ,My stomach is full kind of feeling i experienced.

So what the thing i saw??????..

"At the dinning hall,the persons who were serving the food were not the young,charming,handsome guys dressed with some white shirt and black pant with a black neck tie.
Rather there were very cute,smart,finely dressed teen boys and girls(below 15yrs),serving the food by asking every person "Do you want some more sir/madam??".This is really a superb thought i feel. This idea is really really appreciable as it is opening doors of solution to many of our day to day problems. Though these problems are very small and can be ignored. But a problem is a problem if we will not follow the proper solution then it can be worst.


So now everybody might be thinking how the kids below 15 yrs who are ignorant about the criticality of the society can create problems???.Surely this girl(Me) has gone mad or just she wants to write something so she is writing just bullshit.

But no this is a fact. I will explain............

Imagine a family ( with two three members below 15yrs) went to a function. How those little members will react when they will reach the place!!!.They will just roam here and there,break something,and some times they will get hurt. So complete waste of energy !!!!!.Even this is a botheration for other members .They cannot just sit with their near and dear ones for chit chat. They need to run behind these little ones to make sure these will not get hurt. No one can kidnap them.


Like a block to water flow of a high speed river creates a high pressure and break the block. Same way kids has high energy , enthusiasm and curiosity. our over protectiveness,searching for them every now and then,Making them violent. And create a negative attitude towards their family members.


Then how the idea i appreciated above will help;


1. As its a new thing for them they will be interested to do.


2. They will learn responsibility.


3. They will learn  how to serve people.


4. They will learn to respect food.


5. They will be involved in family function.


6. In any family function ,the first question will come  about our health and the very next question will be hows ur son or daughter??.At that time only our son or daughter will not be with us. He/she will be doing masti with others. And we will not be aware of the place where he/she is. But because of the above idea the question will be changed like "whose daughter/son  he/she is??".

7. They will be more mannered.


As i am explaining so much about this idea does not mean,This is the only idea by which we can groom the childhood. There are many ways. We just need to open our eyes. That's it!!!


Instead of making our children dependent why not make them self confident,independent and last but not the least a real fighter.