Childhood Grooming....

Few days back i went to a function. As we all know when "Function" word is being raised,
there comes the word "Delicious food".So respecting this thought,I entered into the dinning for food .But when i entered into the dinning hall what  i saw was really unbelievable specially in Odisha.Without eating any food ,My stomach is full kind of feeling i experienced.

So what the thing i saw??????..

"At the dinning hall,the persons who were serving the food were not the young,charming,handsome guys dressed with some white shirt and black pant with a black neck tie.

Rather there were very cute,smart,finely dressed teen boys and girls(below 15yrs),serving the food by asking every person "Do you want some more sir/madam??".This is really a superb thought i feel. This idea is really really appreciable as it is opening doors of solution to many of our day to day problems. Though these problems are very small and can be ignored. But a problem is a problem if we will not follow the proper solution then it can be worst.

So now everybody might be thinking how the kids below 15 yrs who are ignorant about the criticality of the society can create problems???.Surely this girl(Me) has gone mad or just she wants to write something so she is writing just bullshit.

But no this is a fact. I will explain............

Imagine a family ( with two three members below 15yrs) went to a function. How those little members will react when they will reach the place!!!.They will just roam here and there,break something,and some times they will get hurt. So complete waste of energy !!!!!.Even this is a botheration for other members .They cannot just sit with their near and dear ones for chit chat. They need to run behind these little ones to make sure these will not get hurt. No one can kidnap them.

Like a block to water flow of a high speed river creates a high pressure and break the block. Same way kids has high energy , enthusiasm and curiosity. our over protectiveness,searching for them every now and then,Making them violent. And create a negative attitude towards their family members.

Then how the idea i appreciated above will help;

1. As its a new thing for them they will be interested to do.

2. They will learn responsibility.

3. They will learn  how to serve people.

4. They will learn to respect food.

5. They will be involved in family function.

6. In any family function ,the first question will come  about our health and the very next question will be hows ur son or daughter??.At that time only our son or daughter will not be with us. He/she will be doing masti with others. And we will not be aware of the place where he/she is. But because of the above idea the question will be changed like "whose daughter/son  he/she is??".

7. They will be more mannered.

As i am explaining so much about this idea does not mean,This is the only idea by which we can groom the childhood. There are many ways. We just need to open our eyes. That's it!!!

Instead of making our children dependent why not make them self confident,independent and last but not the least a real fighter.

 

Attachment.....

 

Huhh...!!!!! So much office work,meetings,conference call blah blah blah.In the mean time i forgot to look at the clock."oh! My God "!!!!!its 7 p.m.,I had to leave office now.Then i rushed to my scooty(oops sorry not scooty Its Activaaa!!!.Seriously Bunu Mamu your explanation about the difference between scooty and activa (cost wise) made me give high respect or importance to Activa.

Now a days policy is like if you give some one high importance,then he/she will show you more attitude. Though science says activa is lifeless,but in my thinking activa has  engine as its heart. petrol/diesel is the blood circulating and giving energy. Two mirrors in front are like two big eyes without eyelashes. The head light in front seems like it is  smiling by showing its all shining teeth .How it could forget to show attitude to me. It does not start (neither with electrostat nor with kick start).I quickly caught a person passing near by and told him to start it. Then I thanked him and drove with a speed of around 50 or 60 .I did not get the reason of my hurry.

After around 45 minutes i reached at my home where my papa was waiting near the gate with holding mobile in his left hand and right hand taking the support of our main gate. His forehead muscles were compressed making line on it. Eyes were like a person waiting for some missing thing and has faith that it will come back Soon. when he saw me his eyes ,forehead all got their natural structure. He opened the complete gate and asked "Why today late????".Even though he questioned like an IT manager but the care and the concern in his voice turned an IT manager to a caring father. After answering that i went straight to my bedroom where mama was watching her favourite TV serial holding mobile in one hand. Though she was looking at TV but her eyes and mind thinking and worrying about my safe return. Even before i sat on the couch she listed out all stuffs which could be eaten in the evening snacks. As i was on diet so ate some cucumber and discussed about my office and college stuffs. I ran straight to grand Ayee's place near by. Even there also i was seeing every one of different age starting from 10yr old sibu to 60 yr old grand Ma was waiting for me .All were like saved thier energy of the whole day for telling all the things happened in the whole day in 30 minutes to me. All the complaints about sibu's and babu's study,About the stuffs Meena mayin cooked,About Tuni mayin how she is often going to her paternal house etc and etc.

These all things happening again and again ,on everyday...but still no body is getting bored of it. Everyday these people(including me) play the same role ,same action but still we feel as it has not happened before. If any deviation happens to this then we feel like we are missing something .

I tried to find out the hidden thing between me and office!!,Me and Activa!!,Me and Papa!!,Me and MAMA!!!,Me and Ayee!!,Me and  every individual of our family!!..what is this ??? what is this>???????

  I got an answer for it today............

                                       That is called...

   

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